Many of us come from lineages that have suffered deeply from the consequences of the energetic imbalance between masculine and feminine energies. This imbalance often manifests in our lives through dysfunctional relationships and challenges in creating stable, functional structures, it affects the health and mental wellbeing as well.
What we often call “bad luck” is actually an unconscious program—imprints inherited from the relational dynamics of our lineage that we unconsciously reenact until we bring them to light.
We all attempt to break these patterns in different ways. The younger we are, the more inexperienced we tend to be, and we fall easily into repeating our elders’ behaviors. As we mature, we may try to avoid making the same mistakes, often by applying reason—but without truly healing the wounds. And yet, even with all our efforts, we often find
Before birth, our soul absorbs the energetic imprint of our lineage, because one of our missions is to evolve the family line. This does not mean trying to save our family members—it means witnessing their stories, honoring them, and from a place of love, choosing to do things differently. Not better or worse—just differently. That choice is an act of reclaiming our free will, free from unconscious loyalties.
We connect to our ancestors through the curse or the blessing. The curse is activated when we resonate with their unresolved ego—absorbing their beliefs, opinions, and limitations. Every belief they held, from the personal to the political, is stored in the collective unconscious of our lineage. When we operate from ego, that’s what we absorb—the voices of their ego, not their soul.
The blessing, however, emerges when we connect to our own soul. From the soul, only love flows. Gratitude for life, for existence, for their efforts, for everything they did—and everything they didn’t. From that expansive space of love, we begin to hear the voice of their souls. They guide us from the higher plane, and we align with that guidance when we are centered in our own soul, not our ego.
It was their sacrifice, in times of deep density and darkness, that gave us the foundation for evolution. Our growth is a tribute to them—a liberation that honors what they could not achieve in life but can now witness through us. This way, our children will inherit a new foundation for their own journey.
Through the path of holistic sexuality, I began to understand the true power of womanhood—the sacred power of the uterus. I started connecting with the frequency of 222, the frequency of Mary Magdalene, the High Priestess and soul companion of Jesus. That connection began awakening my inner High Priestess. The first energy I began to observe was the masculine, through the spiritual power of the Lion. Once I could feel the nobility and worth of men—truly comprehend their amazing nature—I began to experience a deep respect I hadn’t felt before. I made peace with, and eventually fell in love with my inner masculine.
During the activation of the feminine energy I crossed the shame, the anger toward women—for being “weak,” for being “codependent,” for blindly submitting to men, I crossed the hatred I carried against myself for being born a woman.
I used to confuse modesty with fear of being authentic. I was afraid of my own energy, afraid of the woman I could become. I mistook decency for lack of confidence. I stayed silent so many times in front of men I disagreed with—simply because they were men, and “men deserve respect.” During this raw process of self-discovery, I remembered how much outspoken women used to bother me. Then a window opened. A new understanding of the sacred power of women began to reveal itself— the most beautiful truth: the real value of women.
From a place of fear, scarcity, and defensiveness, many women have unknowingly created a toxic version of masculinity to compensate for generations of abuse. But that only perpetuates a war between the sexes. Many women, even those who have achieved a position of empowerment, still unconsciously abuse their own inner feminine.
The feminine is not weakness—it is a different, equally powerful form of strength. It is not scarcity. On the contrary, it is nourishment, abundance. It is the energy of the Mother—Earth herself—who feeds her children.
Women and men must stand as equals. But equality does not mean uniformity or masculinization. True equality honors our differences as complementary, not competitive. Feminine and masculine qualities—active and receptive, giving and receiving—must meet in harmony to create unity.
In relationships where the man is placed in a superior, father-like role, imbalance thrives. The woman will not feel free to express herself—her creativity, her ideas. She won’t be able to develop her individuality, grow in her career or financial independence, and—most importantly—she won’t be able to embrace her sexuality with full freedom and pleasure, because energetically, she is entangled in an incestuous dynamic with a father-like figure. And it is through her sexuality, through the creative force of her uterus, that she creates abundance.
A woman is naturally connected to both worlds. A man naturally receives from higher planes. She is the one who grounds those ideas into Earth—not through words alone, but through the sacred alchemy of intimacy. His seed is filled with visions, and her uterus receives that divine spark and gives it form.
True alchemy only works if she is valuable in his eyes. If he holds resentment or devalues her, that is what will manifest in the reality. And if she silently hates or belittles him, his dreams will not take shape as long as they are together in that frequency. Any kind of scarcity in a home reflects misalignment in the couple—resentment, emotional disconnection, and a lack of shared purpose.
Manifestation is the result of a sacred union in perfect energetic alignment. A man owes devotion to the woman—not as a slave, not from ego, but as an act of reverence. Devotion is deep respect for her power as a High Priestess, who helps materialize his visions. It is shown through how he treats her—his respect, care, presence, and provision. Provision is not control—it is a natural function of the masculine energy, just as nourishment is of the feminine. Together, they create a field of abundance.
A selfish man who denies his woman her sacred role as co-creator condemns himself to scarcity. Likewise, a woman who resents the masculine, blocks abundance from entering their shared reality—disempowering his inner king, reducing him to a child unable to manifest, and potentially leading him into sexual dysfunction. Disharmony between the masculine and feminine collapses any empire, any dream.
Hatred between the sexes gives rise to deep pain, illness, depression, and loneliness in women—and to failure, frustration, and weakened sexual vitality in men.
When a man is truly devoted to a woman, he honors the part of her that is divine. Her uterus becomes a portal to the infinite, and through sexual union, she blesses him with the healing frequency of the rose—an energy that expands from her heart and envelops him in a field of love, protection, and inspiration.
She uplifts him not through control, but through presence. She becomes his spiritual guide, his priestess—transmuting his ancestral karma through her sacred body. But she can only do so if she remains connected to The Divinity. The kingdom of a man lies at his woman’s feet—and his spiritual crown rests upon her third eye.
Even when she does not conceive, his seed still fertilizes her with light, enhancing her spiritual connection, increasing her psychic strength. A man’s loving seed beautifies a woman—emotionally, hormonally, spiritually. It protects her. She becomes safe, contained, and radiant.
Great women do not stand behind great men. They stand beside them—on their left.
Sexuality is sacred. A woman receives the whole essence of a man—his beliefs, his emotions, his wounds.We must ask ourselves: What are we allowing into our bodies? Into our souls? What are we choosing to receive?
Sex is alchemy. And alchemy deserves reverence— for our bodies, for our souls, and for one another. The true feelings between a couple are never hidden. They manifest visibly—in the physical aspects of their lives, in the way they build, grow, and shape their shared reality.
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