Every soul that incarnates on this Earth comes with a mission and a responsibility to carry. Some have heavier missions, harder jobs. The more subtle the quality of the soul, the more its mission is tied to the ascension of mankind—and the harder it becomes for that soul, now in human shape, to understand the dynamics of this world.
It goes back to the fact that we belong to the infinite: infinite abundance, infinite space, infinite expansion. To come down and become visible, dense, and touchable requires us to restrict our true nature into a limited space, within a body, with limited resources and opportunities, constantly meeting opposition and fractions that work against us. For the subtle human, this can feel unbearably hard.
The more constructive and grounded a soul’s mission is, the easier it may be for that person to understand these dynamics. They are often born under circumstances that teach them or push them to learn the rules of the game quickly. But those whose mission is to remind others of their true nature often suffer more when faced with the restrictive, strategic ways life operates—especially if ego wounds are deeply present: abandonment, rejection, injustice, humiliation, devaluation, betrayal.
We have all experienced these wounds to varying degrees, and they affect how we perceive ourselves and reality, adding to the challenges our soul faces while operating on Earth.
How fortunate are those who grow in healthier environments, allowing them to understand, ground, and play by the rules so they can begin their purpose early in life. Others spend years suffering from imbalance, stuck in repetitive loops of abuse, replicating their ancestral patterns and childhood wounds.
Sooner or later, life pushes us to realize we can no longer bear the discomfort of falling into the same patterns. We begin to understand there must be a trick, a dynamic, a formula to operate here—and that is when we truly get it: everyone and everything has a strategy. Not because people are bad, or because they cannot love, but because the world requires the activation of the law of reciprocity, teaching us to regulate how much we give to others so they can give back without humiliation or imbalance.
Big souls are capable of giving in abundance—rivers of love, energy, and information. But when giving turns into something excessive, harmful, or toxic, for the one who receives, and cannot reciprocate, letting the giver feel deprived, we are called to learn how to manage the give-and-take of life.
I used to dream of a world without strategy, of relationships without mental games, based on total truthfulness, I used to dream of dynamics without patterns and laws of response—I dreamt with a personal world in which the close humans to me, live with pure transparency and authenticity.
I found myself crashing against the wall countless times, failing repeatedly, because the world did not change for me. Behind this dream was my ability to recognize the essence of others, to remember that in higher dimensions we are all one. But I lacked appreciation for the rules of Earth.
I would see the divine nature in others, even within their darkness, and place their essence above their human nature. When I was hurt by their human actions, I would suffer deeply, unable to understand how people whose essence I knew could act with cruelty. The world did not change to adapt to me.
I had to learn to ground myself, to accept that the potential of a human is not necessarily the nature they display on Earth. I had to focus on facts rather than in potential, I had to focus on what it is, rather than what it could be. I had to learn strategy as a form of protection, because humans respect what they perceive strong with their eyes, not necessarily connect their hearts to the essence behind.
I have endured a massive process of contraction that still hurts, but if I wanted to continue living in this world, I had no option but to accept the nature of life.
I do not defend nor accept for myself the defensive attitudes born from fear and mental scarcity. I love vulnerability in all its forms, and I deeply admire those who allow themselves to be vulnerable and truthful. However, I am learning to give space for the protective shell to appear, to protect the structure we are here to create.
For me, strategy is about regulating the flow of energy to match it with what we receive, to respect balance, and to protect dignity—not as a means of mental control, display of power, or dominance. This is the difference between a grounded, healthy human and a narcissist.
I understand now that not all strategies need to be spoken aloud; some are meant to remain in our private book of wisdom, because others’ egos may not accept or understand the unveiling of the game. Without the veil, there is no game, and strategy would become a flat, useless lie.
Until we truly learn to love, deeply and genuinely, we will need to continue creating and standing by the natural strategies found within creation, aligned with neuroscience and with the primal energies of masculine and feminine within us.
We must continue understanding the basic rules of healthy dynamics if we wish to manifest stable, structured, and healthy results.
We need to comprehend the human science behind certain strategies and their effectiveness, for one simple reason, my beloved one:
even if it is secondary to our awakened soul, today we are playing as humans—and that is our main character.
The Circle of Hanik 