“When Love No Longer Needs a Future”

To you, beloved soul,
who asked me why,
and whispered not to love you.
Here is my answer —
woven in words,
from the silence where love simply is.

What if love doesn’t come wrapped in the perfect package?
What if we have been conditioned by society, stories, and paradigms to believe that love must look a certain way?
Perhaps we have missed the love of our life because we could not see a “future projection” next to that person—forgetting that life exists only in the now.
Maybe the love we seek is meant to be lived today, with the soul before us, reminding us that the greatest love of our life might already be here, in this present breath.

The mind, with its linear obsession dividing life into past, present, and future—more past and future than now—sabotages the beauty of the moment.
It measures worth by how something fits into the image of tomorrow, dismissing what does not seem durable or definable.
Yet life unfolds only in the present, where sensations are real, where the pulse of existence reveals itself.
Everything else is memory or imagination—echoes of time that belong to the mental plane.

We spend our lives thinking of tomorrow and miss the miracle of today.
We long for certainty, for what can be explained, but love was never meant to be explained—it was meant to be felt.

The ideas of what’s “right” or “wrong” belong to collective patterns, not to truth.
Each soul arrives with its own map: ancestral roots, stellar origins, memories encoded in DNA, and a sacred purpose—to transmute, to love, to serve.
Our experiences are not random; they are tailor-made for our soul’s evolution.
So what if you are rejecting what is meant for you, simply because it doesn’t fit into the world’s definition of correctness?

Love has no labels. It is not a projection of what could be—it is the force that heals and awakens from within.
When two souls meet in energetic resonance, love becomes the current that transforms everything it touches.
This transformation happens only in the now, and it rarely arrives through perfection.
It comes through souls with scars, with untapped potential, with wounds that mirror our own—so that pain becomes a bridge, not a wall.
It comes through those who remind us that evolution happens through presence, not through planning.

Sometimes love appears in a form that shows no future because it is not meant to lead you forward—it is meant to awaken you now.
Only by being present can you strip away the armor of ego and reveal who you truly are.
This revelation does not happen in theory, nor through books or study—it happens by living, by feeling, by daring to love.

Love is the divine vehicle through which we awaken to our essence.
Through another’s reflection, we meet ourselves—our light and our shadow, our strength and our weakness, our awareness and our innocence.
The other is you, in another vessel.
To love is to remember yourself through the mirror of another soul.

Not feeling is not living—and not living is not evolving.
To live is to feel, and feeling means embracing both joy and pain, two sides of the same sacred coin.
Why fear pain, when it is the most transformative force on Earth?
The soul does not fear pain—it fears stagnation.
It is the ego that clings to comfort, resisting change, because transformation threatens its illusion of control.

That is why we seek “secure” love—the kind that promises a future, a plan, a list we can check.
And while this may seem rational and safe, the more control we exercise, the less we truly live.
The ego seeks safety; the soul seeks expansion.

Perhaps “secure love” is just a social construct—two aligned characters building a shared project on Earth.
But true love is wild, unnamed, unlabelled.
It cannot be forced by the mind, only expressed through it.
Love does not vanish simply because we decide it should—it continues, transformed, waiting for recognition in another form.

Love is the oldest story written in the heart of humanity.
What if love is more than a feeling?
What if it is the purest expression of God—sending us another as a mirror to know ourselves?
To be in love is to discover how lovable you are, because the other is but an extension of your own divinity.
What you love in them is what exists within you—in light and shadow alike.

Love, then, is the path of remembrance.
It invites self-awareness, self-nurturing, self-realization.
It is the most direct way to awaken the soul to its eternal truth.

The social construct around love is only an echo of human fear—our attempt to secure permanence in a world of impermanence.
But real love stories are silent.
They remain unspoken, unnamed, unknown to the world—yet eternally remembered by the souls who lived them.

And always remember: love comes in many shapes and forms, and all are sacred.
Every expression of love is perfect, even when the world tells you otherwise.
For every love is a doorway through which the soul remembers its divine origin.

Published by Lala Gomez

My name is Lala Gomez, and I was born in Colombia. My spiritual path was initiated in 2004 through Islam, which I studied in depth for many years. Between 2004 and 2012, I immersed myself in the spiritual, mystical, and theological dimensions of the tradition—a study that continued for a decade more as I began to integrate esoteric tools and other schools of thought, including Kabbalah, Astrology, and Tarot. In 2012, I consciously stepped into a healing process that became a turning point in my life. Guided by a natural connection to Reiki, Tarot, and Astrology, I began developing a personal practice rooted in energy work, intuitive insight, and symbolic exploration. Tarot, in particular, became a therapeutic path for inner listening and healing, which I now offer through a method that blends systemic perspectives, subtle energy, and ancestral wisdom. In 2014, I founded islamenespanol.co to share the essence of Islam beyond rigid interpretations. After a decade of transformation, I launched thecircleofhanik.com—a space dedicated to universal spiritual guidance, beyond the boundaries of any single tradition. Currently, I’m developing a sacred method of natal chart interpretation based on the 28 lunar mansions and the Divine Names of God, inspired by the teachings of Sufi master Ibn Arabi. I’m also writing a book on the 99 Names of Allah as living aspects of the soul’s essence and pathways for inner integration.

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